Dealing With an Unexpected Loss? Funeral Home Selection Tips

Dealing with the unexpected loss of a family member is one of the most difficult things most people will face in their lifetime. Something that makes this type of loss even more difficult is that when people pass unexpectedly, such as at a young age, there are rarely ever any funeral arrangements in place.

This leaves families scrambling to find a funeral home and make burial plans during an already incredibly difficult time. If you are reading this because you or someone you love has experienced a tragic, unexpected loss and you are struggling with the funeral arrangements, the following information may be helpful to you in this time of need. 

Determine whether your loved one had made any specific requests

During an unexpected loss where the deceased may have had no formal funeral arrangements planned for themselves, they may still have expressed some preferences for the type of funeral they would choose. To determine if your loved one may have spoken of this type of choice with a close family member or friend, take a moment to reach out to these people before making plans. Remember, even if your loved one has been taken to a certain funeral home, you still have options to make changes and to have them moved to another one, should it fit more closely with your plans or needs. 

Understand your consumer rights relating to funerals

Consumers are covered under a funeral industry rule created by the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) to help ensure that they are able to make well-informed decisions during a difficult time. Some of the important facets of this rule includes assurances that consumers:

  • receive an itemized list of services and costs before making payment
  • are able to obtain and discuss pricing information by phone
  • have choices regarding embalming
  • can choose to furnish their own casket or urn instead of purchasing one from the funeral home

The funeral rule also ensures that you can choose and pay for only the goods and services you want. 

Determine an affordable budget for the service

Discussions about funeral costs are extremely difficult when you are already dealing with an unexpected loss of a loved one, but it is important to proceed carefully and stay within an affordable budget. If more than one person will be contributing to help pay for the service, make sure that everyone is in agreement with the arrangements being made before discussing plans with the funeral home. 

Funeral directors are trained to assist families as they struggle with the loss of a loved one. So feel free to candidly discuss the arrangements, including costs and payment options, with them as you finalize the funeral plans for you loved one. Contact a local funeral home today to discuss your needs. 

About Me

getting through the planning process of a funeral

Nobody ever really wants to think about what will happen when they pass away. I think that is why so many of us do nothing to plan for our funerals. After suffering through planning my father's funeral while grieving, I decided I wasn't going to do that to my kids — I knew right then that I would take care of as much of the planning as possible before my final day. This blog contains all sorts of information that can help you pre-plan your own funeral or even get through the planning process for the passing of someone that you love.